How To Be A Man  

Mard Ko Dard Nahi Hota (Men Don’t Feel The Pain.)
We have been brought up in the households,which made us preach such false teachings
They told me that I will soon be the man of the house, While I was just 6 years old.
It’s not there fault you see.
This is what they have been taught since centuries.
That Men don’t feel and Men don’t cry.
Man up they told me Man up, Young boy..
And as a kid, I once cried in the public and people laughed, as if they actually loved it 
and then that kid wiped his eyes, his smiling face was full of lies
He would make a decent writer, But engineer sounds more wise…
When can we finally talk about mental violence ?
So that I can finally break this silence ?
So that I can unlock my door and let you in
Don’t ask me why was it shut so long and why is it so dark in here ?
So this is about the men in your life
And contrary to popular belief, this still is feminism.
This is for every father, every brother, every son. Who wet his pillow so many times, and 
yet woken up just fine
He’s broken down and yet he’s smiled he’s owned his mustaches, but he’s still a child
He wishes he could talk to you about this but he wouldn’t know where to begin, He is 
a product of a failed system, While expressing himself was considered a sin
And his is buried them all inside and look he’s alive and yet he carries his kin Look at 
his tears drip from his silence, you need to break this silence and talk to him

So Go, Talk to your DAD
Ask him what his dreams were, what he really wanted to pursue

Talk to your ELDER BROTHER
Ask him what he’s going through, how he landed up in this job he never wanted to tell 
him that you miss him, and that he could spend more time at home and that he doesn’t 
need to hide his notebook anymore

Talk to you SON
Who might be very young, but tell him that he needs to speak  and that crying in public 
won’t mean that he is weak but he can’t cry himself to sleep every night, because the 
world is running out of dry pillows

TALK TO THEM
They might not speak up about what they have been through and it might take them a 
while to actually share. But it will be comforting them to know that someone’s there to 
listen, Someone will help them take care

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PC:- Simar Singh

Thank You 
Pydi